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Gossip? In Old English, a “godsibb” was a godmother or godfather, from “god” plus “sib,” meaning “relative” (related to our modern “sibling”). It was later used to refer to companions in childbirth – people from the community who were there in difficult and celebratory times…

Thurs 5th Aug: The silent land

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This Thursday we ate our meal in silence before moving onto our night prayer. It was a tranquil and reflective experience. So amazing watching how peaceful the children could be. Thanks to everyone for going along with it.

Here are some comments from the evening…

  • in peace we are allowed to be
  • love the noises usually drowned out – cutlery on plates
  • praying to God thinking about new life
  • more togetherness and cooperation – less noise and less of the unnessecary
  • be still and know that I am God – Psalms
  • words are the net that hold us together but without the net we can swim free in the sea
  • when you pray, go to your private room and, when you have shut the door, pray to your father who is in that secret place, and your father who sees all that is done in secret will reward you. Mt 6:6

Sun 1st Aug: The Breath of God

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Then the lord God formed man from the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and the man became a living being.

Genesis 2:7

“God has given to the earth the breath which feeds it. It is his breath that gives life to all things. And if he were to withhold his breath, everything would be annihilated. His breath vibrates in yours, in your voice. It is the breath of God that you breathe – and you are unaware of it”

Theophilus of Antioch

A closing blessing…

Make space

To hear an ancient rhythm
Learn a well loved dance
Sing a cherished song

Make space

Discover a wisdom filled story
Entertain generation old tales
Illuminate neglected images.

Make space

Explore the mysterious familiar
Study the hazel nut lines
Stare in disbelief at natures intricacy

Make space

Monasticism recycled, revamped, respected.

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This seven-week cycle we’re looking at various monastic practices. How can they shape us as a very different type of community?

Throughout the cycle we’ll be keeping Saturdays free for Greenbelt preparation.

Week 1

Thurs 22 July. Kate/Andrea hosting community meal in Thame. Resource by Cara.

Sun 25 July. Worship gathering 10:30 South Park. Facilitator needed!

Week 2

Thurs 29 July. Hosts Sam, Dave & Ariane. Resource needed!

Sun 1 August. 2pm Worship in Bury Knowle park. Facilitator Toby

Week 3

Thurs 5 August. Community meal hosted at Toby’s. Resource needed!

Sun 8 August. No gathering this Sunday.

Week 4

Thurs 12 August. Hosted at Tracy, Rich & d’boyz house. Resource needed!

Sun 15 August. 10:30 at Mish for Greenbelt run-through.

Week 5

Thurs 19 August. Conversation with Sister Margeret Anne. Fr Chris, Mum  Rachel, Princess Niamh and Toddler Ezra have stepped in to host – thanks guys!

Sun 22 August. Bethlehem Chapel 7pm – facilitator needed and Fr David can no longer preside over Eucharist.

Week 6

Greenbelt!

Week 7

nofing – invite some friends to dinner this week ;-)

Greenbelt Ideas

GB Saturday thinking This is my attempt to summarise our Greenbelt conversations on Thursday and Saturday. Please let me know if i’ve missed anything you felt I should have included!

The bible readings we looked at were Genesis 16, Genesis 21 and Mark 5:1-20

Reflections

  • Everyone has been an outsider at some point
  • Desert and sea are places where people don’t exist any more – no connection to the rest of the world no sense of identity
  • A river is an outsider, going somewhere but doesn’t belong anywhere
  • Ishmael is given an identity  – a name and a skill to identify him
  • Element of insanity in being truly an outsider
  • “go back to your community” – the Gospel legion story sends the outsider home.

Outsiders and the Eucharist

  • Jesus becomes an outsider and in doing so redeems the outsider honour + shame honour must be sacrificed
  • “My God, My God why have you forsaken me?”
  • Being an outsider can be cool and hip – but being forsaken is being truly an outsider. Not cool at all!
  • Forsaken by all but God?
  • Inside vs outside of God’s will forcing it our own way.
  • Outsider Beatitudes – blessed are the refugees

Ideas

  • Blank labels given to lose identity
  • Blank labels covered with newly written labels
  • Sand drawings or sculpture – photographed and showed at eucharist
    Throw a ball of wool to each other to create web – then cut it to create outsiders
  • A giant animosity bracelet
  • Balloons – have an inside and outside
  • Graffiti – outsider’s art
  • Stencil art
  • Art where a surface layer is removed to show something
  • A hoop with labels on the outside. Labels 2 sided with positive and negative words on different sides. Flip the labels over (into the hoop and inclusion) to show positive. e.g. Victim => Survivor.
  • All labels dissolved and form home made paper – (is making paper a bit complex?)

Greenbelt – creative collaborative challenge

topsy and isla Greenbelt is on the horizon and we had a lively creative discussion about our contribution to the New Forms worship. Abi kept great notes for Saturday’s gathering to build on, Ezra + Niamh entertained the fish + Annabel fed us all with scrumptious quiche + cake. It was also great to have some new faces. Roll on Greenbelt – always so special for us.

Tea with the nuns!

mugs_from_raw mayBe shared cake + conversation with the community of All Saints Convent who generously allow us to use Bethlehem Chapel for our worship gatherings from time to time.

We were inspired by their commitment to each other, to prayer, and to sustained engagement with the needs of the wider community around them, particularly children + young people with life shortening conditions + rough sleepers. It was a privilege to join them for vespers and we hope this is the beginning of a deepening relationship between our too very different communities.

by Sam

Living Faith: A vision for the Diocese

Living Faith

On the Saturday of the mayBe camping adventure at Cuddesdon, the community spent some time considering ourselves using the Diocese’s “Living Faith” vision.

http://www.oxford.anglican.org/living-faith-for-the-future/

This vision or model identifies 5 areas of Church. They are:

  • Making disciples
  • Shaping confident collaborative leadership
  • Creating vibrant Christian communities
  • Making a difference in the world
  • And throughout all this…sustaining the sacred centre

We looked at each of these areas and considered how mayBe practiced these ideals. Do we embrace them well or could we do better? Below is a summary of some of the comments that came out of the session.

Making disciples

  • We encourage each other to grow in faith
  • We have a go, each trying to write resources and contribute to workship.
  • Serving the fringe – many of our community  have struggled with main stream church
  • Out from under the bushel
  • Simple & strong
  • Challenge each other

Making a difference in the world

  • Encouraging others in their actions
  • Prayer
  • Website spreads our vision and makes connections globally

Shaping confident and collaborative leadership

  • Everyone contributes
  • Ratio of member participation very good

Creating vibrant Christian communities

  • All ages
  • Trusting
  • Caring
  • Impromptu events

Sustaining the sacred centre

  • Prayer
  • Through being
  • Free to be
  • Guardians
  • Meeting outdoors
  • Imagery and photos
  • Godly play
  • Labyrinths

Conflict? cycle

Ascention 2 Conflict affects us in many different ways, sometimes from the outside from the inside. What can we learn from our experiences?

Week 1

Thursday 3 June – Emma & John hosting. Ginny to write resource?

Sunday 6 June 3pm – Tea at All Saints Convent with Vespers at 4:30.

Week 2

Tuesday 8 June 3pm – mayBe meet Bishop John.

Thursday 10 June – Rich & Tracey hosting. Toby writing resource.

Saturday 12 June 10:30 – Sam hosting at Mish

Sunday 13 June 10:30am – South Parks. Andrea facilitating.

Week 3

Thurs 17 June – no community meal because…

18-20 Camping weekend @ Cuddesdon [TBC] Sam preparing resource on resolving conflict restoratively. Also community conversation.

Week 4

Thursday 24 June – community meal hosted by Toby. Greenbelt prep (Emma leading).

Saturday 26 June – community meal hosted by Cara (at Cara’s not Mish) with Cara facilitating more greenbelt prep (Emma away).

Sunday 27 June – nothing

Week 5

Monday 28 June – Guardians’ meeting at Sam’s

Thursday 1 July – community meal hosted in Thame by either Kate or Andrea [TBC]. Chris preparing resource.

Sunday 4 July – 7pm Bethlehem Chapel, followed by pint @ rusty bicycle. Sister Margaret-Anne is joining us again and will preside over Eucharist. Chris to facilitate.

Week 6

Thurs 8 July – hosted by Cara. Abi to do resource (TBC)

Sunday 11 July 3pm – Chris Yates’s ordination as Deacon at St Stephen’s House Chapel (St John’s) on the Iffley Rd.

Week 7

Sunday 18 July 2pm Bartlemas Chapel – Sylvie Rae’s Christening

After Easter

Week 1

Thursday 15th April : Hosted by Ginny, facilitator Andrea

Saturday 17th: No meeting today

Sunday 18th: The Mish 10:30am, facilitator Andrea

Week 2

Thursday 22nd April: Hosted by Toby, Theme: doubting Thomas, Cara resource writing.

Saturday 24th: The Mish 10am, hosted by Tracey, Rich & Cara.

Sunday 25th: 2pm Bury Knowle, facilitator needed. (Fr Jonathan asked but can’t preside that day)

Week 3

Thursday 29th April Hosters, Rich & Tracey, theme Peter reinstated, resource Andrea

Saturday 1st May: The Mish 10am, hosted by Ginny

Sunday 2nd 7pm The Upton Room, St Mary’s Convent. Fr David to preside.

Week 4

Thursday 6th May :  At Kate’s house, Emmaus.

Saturday 8th: 10am Mish, hosted by Sam

Sunday 9th : Mila’s Christening, 2pm – let Darko and Ruth know if you can go!

Week 5

Thursday 13th May: At Emma & John’s house, kite making facilitated by Toby.

Saturday 15th: The Mish 10am, hosted by Topsy, John and Isla.

Sunday 16th: 10:30am South Park, Ascension Sunday Kite flying

Monday 17th May: Guardian’s meeting

Week 6

Thursday 20th May: at the Yates’ Theme Pentecost, resource writer needed.

Saturday 22nd: The Mish 10am: Hoster needed

Sunday 23rd : Pentecost: 7pm Bethlehem Chapel, can Sister Margaret Anne preside? Sam to ask.

Week 7

no mayBe meetings this week…